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For them, it was Partition Revisited
TWENTY FOUR years
ago, for three days, armed mobs had a free run - killing Sikh men, destroying
their properties, molesting their women and assaulting their children.
It was the biggest
massacre faced by independent India. When one section of the community was
trying to survive the terror, the other section of the community seemed to be
reliving the trauma of Partition.
"My family managed
to cross the border during the time of Partition. It was not an easy job but we
knew once we reached our land, no one could harm us. But we were wrong," says
Shyama Rani Bhatia (52). Her parents had to face the trauma of both 1947 and
1984.
Shyams's mother,
who now lives in Lucknow, was just 13 during the Partition. For her, escaping
those brutal hands in Pakistan was definitely a matter of chance. But that was
not the end.
37 years later,
when Shyama's parents had forgotten the turbulent past, there was a knock.
"My parents’ house
was the fifth one in the lane. Their neighbors were also Sikhs. My parents
called the police when the first house was set on fire. Only to hear 'Ab jo kiya
hai, uske liye bharo' (You have to pay for your deeds)."
"In 1947, they took
refuge across the border. But 20 years ago, which border could they cross? Where
could they hide? We had become outcasts in our own country," exclaims Shyama.
Life had indeed
taken an ugly turn. More than 4,000 people were killed in three days.
People ran for
their lives, desperate for refuge. Many Sikh families cut off their sons' hair
to shield them. But for some it was sacrilege.
"My sister-in-law's
family was attacked. The women tried to escape but failed. The mob spilled
petrol on the men and lit them. But a Hindu neighbor rescued one of her sons -
he plaited his hair and dressed him up in woman's clothes. He was the only one
to survive in his family," Shyama Rani says.
Burning people with
tires round their neck, chopping off their hair, burning their turbans - these
were common sight during the time. Even the Granth Sahib was not spared.
"My blood boils
when I think of those days," says Virender Singh, who is Shyama's neighbor.
"We were living in
Khyber Pass (located in north Delhi). We (his father, sister and himself)
decided to go to the house of our brother - Urvinder Singh - who was the Tihar
Jail Superintendent. On the way, a mob (not a very big one) stopped us. They
forced out our turbans and burnt them. They even tried to cut our hair but I
resisted. In the process I was stabbed in my chest," Singh says.
"We somehow managed
to escape and hid in a Hindu household for five days. My younger brother was not
so lucky. All his belongings were burnt along with his turban. He spent a night
at the Nigambodh Ghat (a cremation ground) amongst burning bodies," recalls
Singh.
Three days of
trauma, and then the life began to take its normal fold. But Singh's father had
forgotten to smile. Just when the painful memories from the Partition had almost
faded, the incident brought back everything but in a more grotesque manner.
Like any other
migrant, the Partition for Singh's father was synonymous to horror and disgust.
Being robbed of all his belongings and running away from the same hands that he
once held wasn't easy.
Crossing the border
might just imply moving ahead few hundred kilometers but for Singh's father it
was slaughtering his emotions. He was a 'Hindustani' who could not afford to
spend a minute in 'Pakistan'.
When the train from
Pakistan arrived loaded with dead bodies, his father was among those who managed
to escape the brutal hands. When the entire atmosphere smelled of blood and
terror, Singh's father was relishing the thought of coming home. But not for
long. For this home had become another slaughter house. He was reliving every
moment he dreaded.
"It was as if his
life had lost its importance," says Singh. A period of 60 years and two deep
scars. It might have been 20 years but the fear has not died down yet.
It happened first,
when they wanted to come and relax in the warmth of their motherland and again,
when they were secured that nothing could harm them in their own country.
"But our
community does not know how to give up. Hume mitti me mila diya tha aur hum phir
se sona ban kar dikha diye hai (we were razed to the ground, but we have fought
back). We are the strength of this nation and will always be," says Shyama with
much pride and satisfaction. |